Fam Law: Child Custody and Support
If you’re looking for resources about child custody cases, chances are you’re looking for answers, support and guidance from a great family law attorney. Our dedicated Moultrie legal team at Kirbo Law Firm have organized a good amount of info to help guide you through this tough time. We know how important family is, and the need to protect your children. Take the time to research and read everything you can so you know what to expect as you move through this difficult time. We can start with the basics.
The Different Types of Custody
Physical and Legal Custody
Physical custody is generally given to one parent whose child lives with them full time. Legal custody is shared with the non-custodial parent in which both parents have the right to make decisions about the child’s education, religion,health care
This occurs when a parent gets full custody of their child, this occurs most often when the other parent is abusive or absent.
Joint Custody is when a child spends equal or almost equal amount of time with both parents. Joint custody is the cause of some controversy and is only allowed if both parents can cooperate and make joint decisions in the child’s best interest.
Split custody occurs in the instance of several children in which one parent has physical custody of some of the children and the other parent has physical custody of the others. This is generally considered an unfavorable option.
If the parents are not married, the mother wins custody unless the father takes additional measures to be granted custody.
Factors in deciding custody
- What the child wants, depending on his/her age and maturity
- Age and sex of the child
- Health of the parents
- Relationship with others who reside in the house
- Stable home environment
- Any evidence of parental drug, sex, emotional, or alcohol abuse
Responsibilities of the Custodial parent
- Keeping the child in good hygiene
- Teaching them basic necessities. For example, walking, talking, reading, writing,
- Feeding the Child
- Purchasing clothes and laundry responsibilities;
- Making sure the child has healthcare
- Buying clothing for the child
If you’re wondering how you can get custody of your child, you will most likely have to go to court. Of course, parents are able to make the decision if they can come to a mutual agreement. Although if someone changes their mind, it’s much harder to enforce the decision made. Going to court is the safest option if you want your custody written. However, each state has their own laws regarding custody and those should be reviewed first. Check out thebalance.com and see their guide to each state’s laws.
“Alabama. Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida,
Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine,
Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana,
Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina,
North Dakota, Ohio,Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina,
South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington,
Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming”
What If I want to move away with my child?
- Firstly, the court needs to decide if the relocation would be in the best interest of the child. If they decide it’s not, you might have to stay.
- While first getting child custody, it’s helpful to create some kind of agreement than that if the desire to relocate comes up, it’s already agreed upon with visitation schedules already planned out.
- In some states, you as the custodial parent are required to give written notice of the intention to move to the noncustodial parent 30 days before the move. In this notice should be information regarding the new living situation. In some states, the non-custodial parent needs to agree to the move, if they don’t agree they can file a motion to stop the relocation. However, if they don’t respond within the 30 days, you are able to move.
If the non-custodial parent objects, it may go to court and there are several factors determining if you are able to move.
- Distance from your original location can change the outcome of your move.
- Proof that the move is happening because of good intentions, and not to spite your ex. Ways to show this are:
- New job
- Family lives near the new residence
- It’s more affordable
- Education system is better for the child.
- It’s in the child’s best interest
- A proposed visitation schedule is required by most states. Usually the child will see the non-custodial parent over holidays and breaks from school. Having a schedule ahead of time may help your case.
- In regards to the money it takes to travel the child between parents, if you are the parent moving away, you will most likely have to be okay with paying the majority of those costs. If you are, make that known in court.
To talk to a child custody attorney about getting custody or moving away, contact us here at Kirbo Law Firm located in Moultrie, Georgia.
Child Support comes in once custody is assigned. Usually the non-custodial parent will have to give a portion of their income to the custodial parent as child support.
How is it determined?
Usually, child support is issued by family court. They create a number to be paid based on several factors
- Payers income and cost of living
- Decrease in custodial parent’s income
- Child support already being paid from a previous marriage
- If the non-custodial parent is already paying child support to a previous marriage
- Increase in child’s needs
- How many children there are
- What health insurance costs
- If a parent has to pay union dues
However, there are different guidelines for Child Support by state. Check out the National Conference of State Legislatures guide to those guidelines.
How do I get Child Support?
- First, you must be the custodial parent.
- Then you should go to court to get a Child Support Order.
- In the case of a Joint-Custody. If during the marriage one spouse made a significant amount more than the other, they may have to pay some child support to the parent making less.
- Hire your own attorney to help figure out how you will get paid and how much. You can speak to one here. Usually child support enforcement agencies and the court will work together to create a child support system. Child Support will ultimately be issued by family court.
I’m not getting the Child Support I’m owed, What do I do?
- Contact Kirbo Law Firm, your Moultrie Attorney. Child Support is usually court-ordered, and they will have to pay. However, if it still persists to be a problem, the court can take more drastic measures. In some states, the parent who isn’t paying child support can have their wages withheld. If it continues, several other actions may be taken, such as the jail time, seizure of property, interception of tax refunds, freezing bank accounts, suspension of driver’s license, and more.
- If the non-custodial parents lives out of state, the Uniform Interstate Family Support Act enforces them to still pay child support. Child Support Orders may be sent to the non-custodial parents employer who can take the money out of the paycheck. It is illegal for a parent to refuse to pay child support
- If the non-custodial parent seems to have disappeared, you can hire someone from the Office of Child Support Enforcement to try to locate them here. There are several pieces of information of the non-custodial parent to have on record in this event
- Noncustodial parents friends, family, employers, coworkers
- Financial references
- Copy of the Child Support Order
- Police, parole, or probation records
- Non-Custodial parents past addresses
- Childs Birth certificate
- The NCSEA released a list of different states child support enforcement agencies that can help.
To get more information on obtaining child custody or child support, you can speak to one of our family Law Attorneys here at Kirbo Law Firm, located in Moultrie, Georgia.
Phone: (229) 985-1955 Fax: (229) 890-2487
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